Maybe I’m just insecure… but, I think that a relationship should be more than just casual friends… This really seems like setting yourself up to be let down. I mean, why even bother getting married or having a boyfriend if you dont want to spend time together? Seems to me, when your single… you can do all this with no struggle at all. I meet a chick once or twice a month.. and have a little black book. I know, you would say you are together for a deeper more meaningful relationship… but, I dunno… to me, it sounds like everyone posting here has commitment issues. Wouldn’t you have friends together? Or go on adventures together? What happen to compromising… and sacrificing? After so many years together… doesn’t your eye start to stray? Do you really think time apart is going to be a good thing at that point?